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  • The Engagement

    Tom and I got engaged on December 7th, 2009 during “The Last Piece of Cake;” a cabaret starring Tom Privitere (Groom) and Vinnie Costa (Wedding Party). I was playing percussion. As you can see, I was completely shocked when the proposal came. Luckily we will always have this video to remember that beautiful moment.

    Proposal

    Brian
    The Bridegroom

    Comments

    Comment from vinnie
    Time January 24, 2010 at 7:47 pm

    my god! in the still I look so skinny!

    Skinny I say!

    Comment from Brian
    Time January 24, 2010 at 8:47 pm

    You look amazing!

    Comment from Jill D.
    Time January 24, 2010 at 9:13 pm

    OMG, I cannot believed I missed it. It was so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes! Congratulations! I am so happy for you guys!

    Comment from Daniel B.
    Time January 24, 2010 at 11:45 pm

    How awesome is that?! Congrats!

    Comment from AmyBith
    Time January 25, 2010 at 11:46 am

    I love you and am so happy you’re happy!! Congratulations!

    Comment from Thomas Bowen
    Time January 30, 2010 at 11:02 am

    WHAT an amazing moment!
    FRONT ROW seat for it! BEAUTIFUL! Congratulation!!!! I wish you the best of luck!

    Comment from Caralee Ross
    Time February 5, 2010 at 6:41 pm

    That was beautiful! I cried! I love you guys!! XOXOX

    Comment from Kristin
    Time March 24, 2010 at 11:24 pm

    LOVED it!!!!!
    Oh . . . want to hear something funny?? My brother got engaged the same day . . . . and take a wild guess what day my parents got engaged?!? Congrats again!

    Comment from Kimberli MacKay
    Time April 10, 2010 at 12:42 am

    I love it! Well done Tom!! Congrats! Just wonderful!

    Comment from Stephanie
    Time April 30, 2010 at 10:39 pm

    Brian,

    This was so wonderful! I almost had a tear in my eye! The proposal was so sweet! And it’s awesome that you have a video to remember it! Ken proposed to me on Christmas Day and I don’t even have a picture :( It’s crazy that we’re getting married a week apart! And guess what, we’ll be in Mexico 11-18!!!

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    Time June 14, 2010 at 2:46 pm

    [...] became domestic partners in the state of NY on St. Patrick’s Day. To keep with our holiday theme, Tom proposed to me on Pearl Harbor Day that same year. He said, “If you’re gonna bomb, it might as well be on [...]

    Comment from Jo Coffey
    Time June 29, 2010 at 11:33 am

    Well, Krisitn, AGAIN, is steps ahead of me. When I saw the date of your engagement, I immediately felt chills. Not just for you ( Not ALWAYS about you, Tom, :~) but, yes., Michael and I were engaged on Dec.7, 1969, and, unaware of that,Tim was engaged 40 years to the day later. Santa Merda !!

    Comment from Jo Coffey
    Time June 29, 2010 at 11:43 am

    P.S. Now, enough about me….Congratulations to you, and I couldn’t be happier to know how happy Tom is. In 33 years of teaching, memories of Tom remain etched in my memory —–Tom, you are one of my all-time favorites. I wish you a life filled with laughter, fulfilled dreams, and, much love. Brian, you must be a very special guy. Tom, I wouild love to hear from you. Jo C.

    Comment from CynthiaB.
    Time July 6, 2010 at 5:32 pm

    Brian & Tom, although we’ve never met, I’d like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your engagement video with the world. I watched it with my 7 yr old daughter who’s trying to figure out how a little girl who “likes” other little girls fits in with her hetero sister and friends. Thank you for showing her that the love of a good person is what we all look for in our lives, that same-sex couples can love just like mom & dad, and that boys can marry other boys–the logistics of which gave her a headache because she just couldn’t figure out how they were going to eat (assuming that all boys are as bad at cooking as her father). xoxo C.

    Comment from Jo Coffey
    Time August 1, 2010 at 7:31 pm

    Brian…how special you are. Please tell Tom that I’m keeping up with you blog, and am so happy for him…for you both. I was his 11th grade English teacher, and I love him dearly.

    Comment from brian
    Time August 2, 2010 at 9:42 am

    Thank you for you sweet comments Jo. Tom knows you are following along! Thank You! We just love your feedback! :)

    Comment from brian
    Time August 2, 2010 at 10:23 am

    Thank you to everyone for thewonderful comments! XO

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    Time December 22, 2010 at 2:41 pm

    [...] absolutely loved the way Tom proposed marriage to me. It was perfect! It was big, it was public, and it was in front of almost every single one of the [...]

    Comment from Melisa P.
    Time August 28, 2011 at 1:49 am

    Oh man, I’ve just found this video and it almost made me cry. You are the cutest couple ever and I wish you nothing but the best. Amazing proposal

    Comment from Brian
    Time October 10, 2011 at 11:51 am

    Thanks Melisa! ;)

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